Sunday, March 22, 2009

Written In Stone?????

Soooo I got up this morning ready to do some serious cleaning. My hubby has been gone all weekend long and i have been neglecting my duties. I don't mind because i've been doing some hanging with my best friends M and D. So anyways i get up and head out to the grocery store for some groceries and washing detergent. I get there to early (about 15 min.) and have to wait for the store to open. I decided to make a few phone calls while i sat. My first call was to my hubby but he was sleep on the way back home. So i then called my sister but seeing as though she didn't get off til 3 a.m. she was sleep also. My next call was to my Mom and I found out that she planned on coming by later (thank goodness i called her) we said our "goodbyes" and "see ya laters" and I hung up. The last phone call i made was to a good friend who had called me last night but we didn't talk long. She talked about what happened last night and why she had to get off the phone so fast. Then she starts telling me about her conversation with the Store Manager at the store we work at together. Apparently during their conversation I was brought up. He said "It's a shame about her Husband having cancer because they are really good kids." Now before i continue with my story let me explain something, I don't talk or share my problems with ANYONE! I have been this way since my Mother pushed me out into this world! So my friend doesn't know anything. Anyways she tells him that he was lying because if anything this major was going on in my life I would have told her about it because she considered me one of her best friends. Now all this time i am holding the phone feeling like POOOOP! So she then says "It's not true is it." This is when I had to come clean and tell her the truth. It hurt so bad to tell her this because in a way i know i was wrong. So i have to go to work tomorrow and look at my store manager and its going to be weird because I am so MAD at him. What ever happened to confidentiality? The only reason he knew was because if something happened and i had to leave work or i needed an extra day off i wouldnt have any problems. Do I have the right to be angry with him seeing as though i never told him not to tell anyone? Or is it written in stone somewhere that you don't speak about someone if they are not present?

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